Friday, April 9, 2010

Keeping a Relationship Interesting


The Situation
It's another Saturday night at home with the beau you've been dating for a while now. You go over to his place, watch a little TV, maybe get a little make out action. You guys spend the night tucked into each other's arms and fall asleep after some 'sexy time.' Standard for every weekend by now.




Over the last 2-3 years, you guys have pretty much done it all and are now settled into a bit of a rut. It can be tough keeping a relationship interesting after so long, so here's a couple of things you could try to spice it up a bit.






The Solutions

Have a Boys/Girls Night Out
Couples can sometimes spend so much time together that they completely forget their other friends. Sometimes they even forget their own individuality! The reason your lovey found you interesting in the first place is because you were independent. Having a boys night or girls night out could help rejuvenate each of your personalities and remind you why you fell in love in the first place.

Couples who seem to be attached at the hip, (you know, the ones who can't go ANYWHERE unless the other ones comes along), are annoying to everyone else. This is also a symptom of young, inexperienced love. It is important to have your own life, even in a relationship.

Surprise Your Man with Some Vajazzling
Although it's been 'in vogue' since 2006, the buzz around Vajazzling is only getting hotter! If you don't already know, Vajazzling is when Swarovski crystals are applied to a girl's...umm...brazillian area, in a variety of designs, by a professional.

Imagine the look on his face when you reveal yourself in all your sparkling glory! What girl couldn't use a little more sparkle? The crystals stay on for about a week and it's a great way to revamp your sex life without going overboard.

Find a New Hobby
Research shows that couples who learn new things together stay together longer and have fewer fights. Although you two have probably been partaking in each other's favorite hobbies for a while, why not try something completely new to the both of you?

Hobbies like Italian cooking, wine tasting, and even antiques collecting can help you guys bond in more ways than even you thought possible.

No matter what you do, DO SOMETHING. Letting a relationship stay in a rut only leads to one thing, a breakup.

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